I decided to write this article when I bumped into the fact that this exact phrase had been searched for numerous times in a day, and no one else has addressed the issue.Before I begin, I must say it saddens me to see so much low self esteem and confidence. The Problem here is that no one can make you feel sexy; you have to do it yourself!.
Remember the old saying that says, "How can you love someone if you do not love yourself?" the same rule applies here.When you see a sexy person, start watching their behavior. You will notice that they are self confident, have good posture, good style, and walk with a strut. If you look real hard you may notice that these self confident sexy people are not perfect and they have flaws.The key is to "Love your self" The first thing you need to do is start thinking positively about yourself. When you look in the mirror and begin to examine all of your flaws, immediately stop and train your mind to find something positive instead.
Remember you are your own worst critic.If you live or work in an environment where you are criticized on frequent basis, then every time you hear something critical, train your mind to back it up with something positive about yourself.If you are in a relationship where you are criticized on a regular basis then I would highly suggest that you get out. Love yourself, you deserve better.
I know women stay in these situations all of the time. If you are one of these women, then you really need to love your self.Now it is time to spoil your self. Go take a nice long bubble bath, maybe by candle light.
After you get out of the tub and dry off look in the mirror and tell yourself how sexy you are. Cook yourself your favorite meal or take yourself out to eat. Go shopping; get your hair done, new make up and a new outfit. Remember when you are shopping that you are buying and doing stuff that you think you look good in. If you are thinking about what "such and such" would like, it will not work. You have to feel comfortable in your styling in order to gain that self confidence that you need.
Here are a few miscellaneous tips to help you in finding that new sexy look. Consider tanning, tanning can diminish blemishes and give you a smaller appearance with an added healthy glow. Exercise, I am not going to elaborate on this because it is a whole other topic, but it will make you feel better.
Buy some sexy lingerie-remember it has to be something that you like.Sexy is confidence so go out there, and hold your high, come on now, I want to see you strut your stuff, you sexy thing!..Sherri Myers
By: Sherri Myers